Thanks to healthier lifestyles and advances in modern medicine, the worldwide population over age 65 is growing. In the past decade, the population of Americans aged 65 and older has grown 38 percent. As our nation ages, many Americans are turning their attention to caring
for aging parents.1
For many people, one of the most difficult conversations to have involves talking with an aging parent about extended medical care. The shifting of roles can be challenging, and emotions often prevent important information from being exchanged and critical decisions from being made.
When talking to a parent about future care, it's best to have a strategy for structuring the conversation. Here are some key concepts to consider.
Cover the Basics
Knowing ahead of time what information you need to find out may help keep the conversation on track. Here is a checklist that can be a good starting point:
• Primary physician
• Specialists
• Medications and supplements
• Allergies to medication It is also important to know the location of medical and estate management paperwork, including:2
• Medicare card
• Insurance information
• Durable power of attorney for healthcare
• Will, living will, trusts, and other documents
Be Thorough
Remember that if you can collect all the critical information, you may be able to save your family time and avoid future emotional discussions. While checklists and scripts may help prepare you, remember that this conversation could signal a major change in your parent's life. The transition from provider to dependent can be difficult for any parent and has the potential to unearth old issues. Be prepared for emotions and the unexpected. Be kind, but do your best to get all the information you need.
Keep the Lines of Communication Open
This conversation is probably not the only one you will have with your parent about their future
