AS THE HOLIDAYS APPROACH, shopping can become a daunting task for aging adults. Concerns about safety, stamina, and navigating crowded stores might dampen the festive spirit. The thought of long hours at the mall, flu or COVID risks, and even budget constraints can weigh heavily on seniors’ minds. But Christmas doesn’t have to be stressful or overwhelming.
Heidi Hoffman, Director of Mission Integration at The Gardens of St. Francis in Oregon, Ohio, shares a heartfelt reminder: “The most important tip for seniors during the holidays is to focus on the true meaning of the season.” For those with limited resources or large families, Hoffman suggests personal, meaningful gestures like gifting a cherished family photo or baking cookies for the Christmas dinner. These simple acts offer lasting memories without the pressure of material spending.
Here are some additional tips to help seniors enjoy a joyful holiday:
• Set expectations early: Have conversations with children and grandchildren before the holidays, so everyone understands the importance of cutting back on gifts and focusing more on togetherness.
• Create new traditions: Involve seniors in new family rituals like wearing pajamas on Christmas Eve, centering the holiday around shared experiences rather than presents.
• Opt for gift exchanges: Simplify the holiday shopping by organizing a family gift exchange, allowing seniors to buy just one thoughtful present rather than several.
• Share stories, not stuff: Replace excessive gift-giving with quality time. Sit down with loved ones to share heartwarming or funny family tales over hot cocoa, or plan a movie night followed by a holiday meal.
• Assist with shopping tasks: Offer to take your senior loved one to the store, or volunteer to do the shopping and wrapping for them. Using gift bags can simplify the process even further.
• Communicate about gifts: Let your senior relatives know that your family values their presence over presents. Spending quality time together during the holiday season is what truly matters. Hoffman emphasizes, “Often, the most meaningful gift is time. Let your aging loved ones know how much they mean to you and respect the boundaries they might need to set.” She encourages families to make a habit of visiting seniors throughout the year, not just during the holidays. At The Gardens of St. Francis, this sense of connection is celebrated year-round.
For those still looking for holiday shopping options, The Gardens of St. Francis is making it easier for seniors and families alike with its upcoming Marketplace Mania event. On November 9, from 10:00 a.m. to 3:00 p.m., local vendors and crafters will gather to offer unique gift ideas in a cozy, festive atmosphere. “Our goal is to simplify shopping, especially for our residents and seniors in the community,” says Rosanne Kalinowski, Director of Activities. “Bringing vendors to our campus allows for a stress-free shopping experience.” The event is free and open to the public— perfect for a holiday outing with friends or family.
This season, embrace the joy of giving with simplicity and kindness, ensuring that seniors feel cherished and included in holiday celebrations without the stress.
For more information about The Gardens of St. Francis or Marketplace Mania, contact Rosanne at 419-698-4331 or by email at Rosanne.Kalinowski@CommonSpirit.org.
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